I do not understand: Dialogue
I can only try to understand why many people find it so difficult to talk. This is not so literal about having a conversation. Instead to point out the drapes that close on conversation today. Is it emotion? To be in a fit of anger? Is it pride? Disallowing one to truly express the meaning behind their words. Is it fear of confrontation?
In any form of relationship family or not. Some personalities cause you or rather someone else from being able to talk about it. It's like when you are unable to unsee the silence hanging above you. Or you may find yourself getting nowhere with the conversation. Often there is no point in sight where you will come to an understanding. A lot of the time people will then “make up” once both parties gather more detailed information. This is very common especially when people are of opposite personalities. Everyone has people they find it harder to have real conversations with. Not always the case, but it is very hard today for people to communicate on controversial topics. Especially without argument. Intentions can be pure. Yet the peace lies in knowing sometimes you can't talk it out.That is okay! It can be so hard when you want to talk about it. Even though the outcome still doesn't always change we still think we can talk it out. Despite the outcome it is always best to have the conversation. We silence too many opinions when they all matter.
It can be so helpful to address the lessons you've learned. Through the silencing of the voices whether you agree with them or not, we have fallen into a new society. This new society is ridiculing peoples opinions and disregarding people as human. If we talked to each other it would be better. No matter if there isn't an agreeable subject in sight at least we may come to a better understanding. We can learn why someone speaks about things in different ways. There is also a beauty in gathering a bigger appreciation of your beliefs. This can happen when you recognize the difference between yours and others. Perhaps even after a conversation the opposite happens. This is when pride must be forgotten if not already, you have the choice to change your perspective. We are constantly evolving, there is no need to fight that. If we didn't learn new outlooks ours would never alter. We would stay kept stuck in a box without the exploration of all possibilities. Not everybody is a deep thinker either and sees things more in black and white. While this can be easier, isn't life more interesting with substance? I Do not understand why people do not converse anymore. Pain, stories, new jokes, or facts. Things that put spice into the world we learn to appreciate. Let us not become mundane in our quest between lives, jobs, or families. Do not forget we are in a world of people like us. Why live on disregarding we are all here together through it all to the end. Besides, don't new things entice you?